Things Everyone Should Try In 2017.

- Don't be so hard on yourself. 

(That's why it's okay I'm posting this on the 2nd and not the 1st like I planned, already taking my own advice, ha!) if you're doing the best you can then don't beat yourself up if that doesn't feel like it's enough. It's important to show kindness to others but it may be even more detrimental to show kindness to yourself. 

- Set crazy goals, but maintain realistic expectations. 

So that saying that goes "if you shoot for the moon then you'll land amongst the stars" or whatever - they're totally on to something. Set the biggest goal you can and work your ass off to get there. Even if you don't make it you're still further along than you would have been if you hadn't tried. If you do get there then own it (I'm rooting for you!) then that's an incredible accomplishment. The most important thing is that you never stop trying, you owe that to yourself. 

- Never let anyone else's opinion of you cloud how you view yourself. 

Stay true to who you are, the only person who knows your heart truly are you and God. You are worth so much more than you could even imagine. There is no one else like you out there so embrace that. Be unapologetically yourself and get out there and show them just how wrong they are. You are as strong as you choose to be. 

- Don't give any advice you wouldn't take. 

Oh, this one. If I could post this in every photography group while pounding a bottle of vodka I'm telling you I'd go out with a bang. It's a real problem. Pretty much while it's awesome to offer advice, be sure to be objective and certain it is advice that you yourself would take also if it was given by another party. Pretty much, don't be a dick. 

- Take time to be kind. 

Whether it's to a stranger, another professional, or a friend. It's so incredible how one kind gesture can completely turn someone's day around...heck it could completely change their life. So when the opportunity arises please share a kind word, a warm hug....or avoid typing "Wtf" on their post in aforementioned photography groups. I'm working on that last one A LOT this year. 

But above all this year you should OWN it! Make it this best to date, keep that head high and your heart in the right place. You can succeed so much with the right attitude and support system. This year, find your tribe, make your mark, and feed your soul! 

With love, 

Kayla